I-BDSM, isho ukuthi ubugqila nesiyalo, ukubusa nokuzithoba, kanye ne-sadism kanye ne-masochism, isethi yezenzo zocansi ezibandakanya ukushintshana kwamandla okuvumelana kanye nokukhuthazwa ngokomzimba noma ngokwengqondo.I-BDSM ibe yisihloko esiyimpikiswano emphakathini ojwayelekile ngenxa yokuhlotshaniswa kwayo nobuhlungu, ukubusa, nokuzithoba.Kodwa-ke, i-BDSM iwumkhuba oyinkimbinkimbi futhi ohlukahlukene ohlanganisa uhla lwemisebenzi nezifiso, futhi kubalulekile ukuyiqonda ngale kwemibono nemibono eyiphutha.
Imvelaphi ye-BDSM ayicacile, njengoba isekelwe ezicini ezihlukahlukene zamasiko, zomlando, nezingokwengqondo.Ezinye izazi zisikisela ukuthi i-BDSM ibikhona ngezindlela ezahlukene kuwo wonke umlando, njengokungeniswa kwesigqila kwezigqila empucukweni yasendulo, imikhuba ye-flagellation kanye nokuzilimaza ezimweni zenkolo, kanye nokuthuthukiswa kwezincwadi ezivusa inkanuko nobuciko obubonisa amandla dynamics kanye nemimoya. .Abanye baphikisa ngokuthi i-BDSM yavela enkathini yesimanje njengempendulo ezinguqukweni zezenhlalo nezamasiko, njengokunyuka kobuntu, ukubuzwa ngezindima zobulili ezivamile, kanye nokuhlolwa kokunye ubulili.
Noma ngabe imvelaphi yayo, i-BDSM isiphenduke isiko elihlukile elihlanganisa imiphakathi eyahlukene, izinhlangano, imicimbi, nabezindaba.Abasebenzi be-BDSM bavame ukwakha imiphakathi ebumbene eyabelana ngezindinganiso ezifanayo, izinkambiso, kanye nemikhuba, njengokusetshenziswa kwamagama aphephile, ukuxoxisana ngemingcele, nokunakekelwa kwangemva kwesikhathi.Le miphakathi inikeza umuzwa wokuba ngowabanye, ukwesekwa, kanye nemfundo kubathandi be-BDSM futhi ingasiza ekulweni nokucwaswa nokucwaswa abangase babhekane nakho emphakathini ovamile.
Kubalulekile ukukhuluma ne-BDSM ngomqondo ovulekile nongahluleli, njengoba kuhilela izinqubo zokuvumelana nezabantu abadala ezingalimazi abanye noma ziphule amalungelo abo.I-BDSM ayiyona i-pathological ngokwemvelo noma ephambukayo, futhi ingaba indlela enempilo negculisayo yokuthi abantu bahlole ubulili babo, baveze izifiso zabo, futhi bakhe ubudlelwano obuseduze nabanye.Nokho, kubalulekile ukuvuma ukuthi i-BDSM iphethe izingozi nezinselele ezithile, njengokulimala ngokomzimba, ukuhlukumezeka ngokomzwelo, nokungalingani kwamandla.Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuzibandakanya ezenzweni ze-BDSM ngokuzibophezela, ngokuziphatha, nangemvume unolwazi.
Ukuze ube nolwazi oluqine kakhulu nokwanelisayo lwe-BDSM, kubalulekile ukuxhumana ngokukhululekile nangokwethembeka nozakwethu bomuntu, ukuhlonipha imingcele yabo nezinto abazithandayo, futhi ubeke ukuphepha nokuphila kahle kuqala.I-BDSM idinga izinga eliphezulu lokwethembana, ukuxhumana, nokuhloniphana phakathi kozakwethu, njengoba kuhilela imizwa ejulile, ukuzwela komzimba, namandla ashukumisayo.Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukumisa imithetho ecacile necacile kanye nokulindela, ukuxoxisana ngemigomo nemikhawulo yeseshini ngayinye, nokugcina indawo ephephile nesekelayo.
Sengiphetha, i-BDSM iwumkhuba wocansi oyinkimbinkimbi futhi ohlukahlukene odinga indlela evulekile yomqondo nenolwazi.Ngokuqonda imvelaphi yayo, amasiko, kanye nemikhuba, singabonga ukuhlukahluka nokudala kobulili bomuntu futhi sibekele inselele imibono ecatshangwayo kanye nokucwasa odokotela be-BDSM abavame ukubhekana nayo.Ngokuzibandakanya ku-BDSM ngokuzibophezela nangokuziphatha, singakwazi futhi ukuhlola izifiso zethu, sijulise ukuxhumana kwethu, futhi sicebise izimpilo zethu.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Feb-28-2023